I am an introvert, simple.sensitive, emotional, and matured*, easily understand others, care for others.
direct, open-minded, easy-going.
I like traveling, mostly traveling to the countryside, nature, falls, greeneries, etcfoodie, though vegetarian still tries multiple cuisines.like to watch movies in the theatre, one movie per week.like daily evening walks.
My usual routine will be five days work & gym or swimming, sometimes badminton with friends, on weekends, travel, movie, sometimes DIY, organizing, and maintenance.
as I am an Introvert, initially will take more time to initiate talks with the new people, once started will be a good company, can chat with wide variety of topics, at the same time I have one problem too, while speaking unknowingly I jump to a different topic, also without realizing the surrounding I speak little louder, others intimate me to slow down.
I can write or read Hindi, but can't speak or understand
... more fully, open to learning.
I am good with Tamil but still, my friends laugh at some of my dialogues.
My English is not excellent, but it is fully understandable.
I am an atheist, but I go to religious places, I like the food offered there :)I like the feeling or vibration that we get from these places, some strength, calmness, and yeah the aroma of the incense stick is so good.
If you are non-vegetarian, while non-veg is being cooked, I won't do any help in the kitchen, I will sit at the other end of the kitchen. If it is non-veg biriyani, its ok, no problem, I am happy to eat biriyani alone :)
I like to listen to music of my choice while using public transport (rare) or at work or at gym in headphones. Since I am sensitive at some time, slow songs makes me work slow, but not always. Normally while cooking or doing any housework or car travel, just used to play music of any language.
My pictures are one year old in 2019, I been careless for these many days, so I may look odd, now I am taking care of myself, and I promise I will continue this, as this gives a good feeling, healthy and more confident, together will spend time on this. Recently my head is shaved, I am hoping to upload the latest picture in three months, once uploaded will re-edit this.
Coffee is my best energy drink, sometimes a little bit I am addicted to that.I recently bought the car a year before. Currently, my best stress reliever is sitting in the car and listening to the music a little louder. I like that feeling of 360 sound, wide window and the speaker' vibration.
I am not much interested in watching TVs indoor, but it's ok while cutting vegetables or cleaning houses. I used to spend more time outdoor.
I am more interested to have a working partner. If there is no interesting job that you can work, I am happy to help a small business, which you are passionate about, it's not about money, it's for your freedom to stand on your own. If you are passionate about something, don't worry about profit or loss, just do something helping people, rather than doing nothing, we have a short span of life, use it, feel it, give it. Lets have a nice start in the morning, have a experience, spit out about the day in the evening, plan for next day adventures. If you have a bad day, at home break any non-expensive thing :) or will go out to new place or will make a special meal.
In your life you might had a best friend with family or non-family member with whom you used to be naturally who you are, no shy, no fear, speaking with them looking at the eye, a strong bond, fight with them, care them, had similar interests. I expect you to consider me like them. (I can compare myself similar to the character of Watson from BBC-Sherlock Holmes TV series)
I don't know much about fashion, so I may not be good at selections like dress. If somebody says to me, I take that. I used to give money to my sisters instead of buying gifts. I am very good at finding best gadgets :)
I am an animal lover. I grew up in village, we had cows, dogs and cats. The feeling of spending time with these are so good, can play with it, hug it, always smiles, best positive energy, can simply stare for hours, real empaths.My mom used to take care of everything. Now I don't have it, If you want it, have to plan to take care always when it is not sleeping, because I am more emotional about how these feels when we are not near.
Sometimes even for jokes, I used to see much information, I think too much scientifically.
Let me give some example of my thoughts.
Most people likes power, the person can be good or bad for few.
After the Chernobyl series, I realized the power of each atom, didn't know that I have studied about this in my school and I see all the planets & stars are stable because of strong iron atoms in its core.
So far I realized Gravity is the strongest energy in the universe.
I don't believe in god, but I am not able to find answer that how genes are coded in such a way all living and even non-living things(atoms) are trying to survive on its own.
I will feel fulfiled If I can see the real structure of atom not imaginary. Lol.
I have one passion in my thought. Its similar to kind of flying car in Home 2015, not sure whether I will be in this or not, lets see. Don't want to add technical information here.
About My Family:
All three sisters are married, 1 sister working in a government school and the other two sisters are working in private schools.
Youngest last sister's family is staying in our home to take care of my father in my hometown. My father likes to stay there and taking care of agriculture.
Second sister living at 25 miles away from our home at my monther's birthplace. If I am at home and if I get bored, I often go there, have a coffee and come back.
First sister and her husband, both are govt employees, staying in Chennai.
Education:
Till 10th studied in home town, 11th and 12th in the hostel, then 4 years college in Anna University affiliated college, Chennai.
Occupation:
I work as a test development engineer, that is my specialty in the job, I have been appreciated in this domain for finding the root problems, also it is useful for life too.
First six-month internship in Bangalore, then three years in Chennai, then one year in Malaysia last two years and now working in the UK, also flexible to change location based on partner's job if partner has a job
Since my job is related to IT, work is very flexible, can work from home for one or two days per month, or remotely for a short duration of 2 weeks in six months' time, or can work on the weekend instead of a weekday, not often. Planning to start a small online business in parallel after one or two years.
Other than my job, I am planning to create a passive income, with less maintenance, if you have any idea, let's do it.
Currently staying London, if there is no lockdown, will be moving Scotland till February 2024.
About Desired Partner:
Good to have similar interests in daily activities.
From morning coffee, till dinner will share all the housework 50%.
Sometimes need space, I will do the same for you.
Want the partner to stay in the same home, I am happy to change my job location if I can get my job nearer, I hate long travel daily.
Looking for a confident person, non-dependant, demands what she wants without shy and live on her own wish, and of-course sometimes small adjustments, 100 % same interests are not possible.
Though I am introverted, I am very talkative with friends and family, so looking for a person with whom to discuss/chat/argue about science-space-literature-myths intelligent conversations, a friend for life.
Looking for either extroverts or outgoing Introverts.If you are having a goal, happy to support