She took the first step in contacting me. We initially started with emails, then to facebook and then to instant messaging. I saw a friend in her, took the plunge and went to Sydney (for the 1st time alone) from Singapore to meet her and her family, without my family\'s knowledge. I fell for her there and then. And then we got our families to meet and the rest is history. Inshallah, we will have a memorable wedding and a wonderful marriage.